Mu by'ukuri, ibara ry'imyenda riteye ishema cyane ni ikoti rya koti n'ikanzu, byombi biraryoshye kandi ni byiza, sinzi uko nahitamo kwambara buri munsi, ibintu bibiri bimwe kugira ngo mbone seti yose, sinzi uko nahitamo kujya ku kazi, isuku, amategeko n'amabwiriza y'ikoti rya koti bishobora guhuza ikirere cyo mu kazi.
Umuntu utagira icyo yishisha mu bitekerezo byeikanzuishobora kugaragaza ubwiza bw'abagore, ntabwo ari ukwiheba, ntabwo ari ukwiheba gukabije, isanzwe kandi ifite ubwenge, irangwa n'ubwitonzi n'uburanga!
Guhuza ikoti ry'ikoti n'ikanzu ni kimwe mu bikunze kugaragara mu buzima bwa buri munsi, byaba ari ikoti rijyanye n'ikanzu cyangwa ikanzu ijyanye n'ikanzu, ikindi ni cyo gihitamo cyiza kandi ni cyo cya mbere!
Guhuza ikoti ry'ikositimu n'ikanzu nta kirazira, imiterere iyo ari yo yose, imyenda iyo ari yo yose, ibara iryo ari ryo ryose rishobora guhuzwa mu buryo bubiri, kwambara umweru ntazabura, umugabo mukuru wambaye ntazatinya, ni igihe icyo ari cyo cyose, ikirere icyo ari cyo cyose, uwo ari we wese, ni uruvange rw'inyungu kuri bose!
Nk’uko buri wese ashobora kwigira kuri urwo ruhurirane, kugira ngo wambare ubwiza budasanzwe, ugomba kugenzura neza ibiranga uruhurirane, kugira ngo wambare ikoti ry’ikoti n’ikoti ry’ubwiza bw’abakuze, ibi bikurikira bigomba kwitabwaho!
Mu gihe cyo guhitamo amakoti y'ikoti n'amakotiamakanzu, tugomba kwemeza ko imiterere y’imyambarire ihuye kandi isa, kandi mu gihe duhitamo imyambarire ikwiriye aho dukorera, tugomba guhitamo amakoti n’amakanzu afite imirongo yoroshye, imideli ikoze mu mpande eshatu, nta gucapa kw’abana kugaragara ndetse n’uburyo imyenda imwe idakora neza.
Mu guhitamo ikoti n'ikanzu ikwiriye gusohokana buri munsi, idafite ishingiro kandi igezweho ni ingenzi, imiterere y'ikoti ry'umukunzi ariko ugomba kwemeza ko imiterere y'ibitugu iteye neza, umubiri ugororotse udafite ishingiro kandi ubyibushye, ugaragaza neza ikibuno gito kiri munsi y'ikanzu gifite metero eshatu, kandi wumva wuzuye!
Urutugu rw'iburyo n'urutugu bihuye n'ibisabwa, igihe cyose bishobora kwihanganira, kwambara igice cyo hejuru cy'umubiri ntibitera abantu kumva basekeje, imiterere y'imyambarire iri kuri interineti, kuko ku ikanzu iba ifunguye cyangwa ifunze, byose biterwa n'ibitekerezo bya buri wese! Mu guhitamo amakanzu n'amakoti ya koti, ugomba kandi kwitondera guhuza amakanzu n'amakoti ya koti, kandi kudatera inda ni cyo gisubizo cya mbere.
Igikenewe cyane ni ikibazo cyo gupfunyika imyenda ku rutugu, guhitamo ikanzu ifatanye, waba uhisemo amaboko maremare cyangwa magufi, nta kibazo kizabaho, yaba ikoti rya koti rifunguye cyangwa rifunze, mu buryo bw'ishusho birahuye bihagije, biratunganye bihagije!
Ariko, niba ari ikanzu idafite amaboko kandi ibyibushye, mu guhitamo ikanzu yo mu bwoko bwa halter ni amahitamo ya mbere, ikanzu idafite amaboko ariko idafite ku rutugu ni amahitamo ya kabiri, uretse izindi ndende, amaboko adafite amaboko ntabwo yujuje ibisabwa kugira ngo ifatanye neza kandi isukuye.
Kwambara rimwe gusa bishobora "guhitana abantu bane", kwambara ku buryo bugaragara nk'aho byabyimbye cyane, biryoshye, uko byagenda kose, bigira ingaruka cyane ku miterere n'uburyo bifata, ari nabyo bituma ikoti ry'ikote n'imyenda bisaza!
Ariko, niba ari ukudakora neza no kubyibuhaikanzuMu guhitamo ikanzu yo mu bwoko bwa halter, ikanzu idafite amaboko ariko idafite amaboko ni yo ya kabiri, uretse izindi ndende, amaboko maremare ntabwo yujuje ibisabwa kugira ngo ifatanye neza kandi isuku.
Kwambara rimwe gusa bishobora "guhitana abantu bane", kwambara ku buryo bugaragara nk'aho byabyimbye cyane, biryoshye, uko byagenda kose, bigira ingaruka cyane ku miterere n'uburyo bifata, ari nabyo bituma ikoti ry'ikote n'imyenda bisaza!
Mu gihe uhitamo ikanzu ya koti + ikanzu, wirinde ko ifite uburebure bungana n'igice, ntabwo ari ngufi, amakoti ya koti, amakanzu ni amwe. Mu bihe bisanzwe, hari ubwoko bubiri bw'ikoti rya koti, bumwe bufite uburebure bungana n'ubwa jk ariko imiterere ya hip, bumwe bworoshye gupfuka amatako y'uburyo busanzwe, hitamo ubwa mbere bushobora kugaragaza ikigereranyo cy'ikibuno hagati y'ikibuno, ying ying ikibuno gito kandi gifite imiterere irambuye, imiterere myiza y'ikibuno hagati y'ikibuno, yuzuyemo abagore.
Hitamo ikintu cya nyuma cy’umutekano kiri hejuru, inenge z’umubiri zishira burundu munsi y’igitambaro cyazo, ubwumvikane buhebuje, imyambarire ikurikiranye bashiki bacu batunganye ntucikwe, igipimo cy’ijosi n’urutugu, igipimo cy’ikibuno n’ikibuno gishobora guhindurwa!
Uburyo bwombi bw'ikoti ry'ikoti bujyanye n'amahame ngenderwaho ya buri munsi, byongeye kandi, dushobora kwita ku guhitamo no gushyira hamwe ikanzu, igice cyo hejuru cy'ikanzu ni inyungu, ariko nanone tugomba kwita ku burebure bw'ikanzu!
Amakanzu y'uburebure butatu ajyana neza n'amakanzu y'imbere.
Iya mbere ni ikoti rito, ripfuka igice cy'itako ry'uburebure bw'ikanzu hakurikijwe ibisabwa mu kwambara, n'ikoti risanzwe rya kositimu ndende, Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika zombi, icyifuzo cyuzuye gifite ubushobozi bwo kumva, ingaruka z'amaso zirakomeye, kugira ngo wirinde ivumbi, ububobere, ni byiza ko uhitamo imikufi ifite ishusho ya A aho guhitamo amatako y'umufuka ugororotse, iya mbere ni gaze y'umuriro, iya nyuma ikwiriye akazi!
Icya kabiri, ni byiza guhitamo ijipo itwikiriye igice cy'inyana yawe, idakuraho uburebure cyangwa ngo igire ingaruka ku isura n'uburyo igaragara, kandi ikaba nziza cyane kandi ibereye abagore b'ingeri zose.
Dushobora kwizera ko ubu burebure bw'ijipo atari "igice cy'uburebure ntabwo ari kigufi", gusaza rimwe ntabwo biteye isoni, ivi ni "igice cy'uburebure ntabwo ari kigufi", ibuka kwirinda! Amaherezo, turakugira inama yo kugerageza ijipo ndende ingana n'akaguru, hamwe n'ijipo idakomeye, imiterere n'ubwiza, umwuka mwiza wo muri Mata, ijipo iguruka, nk'inzozi!
Igihe cyo kohereza: Ukuboza-20-2024
